from The Five Love Languages Defined:
1) Words of affirmation - using words to build up the other person, not insult or belittle them.
2) Gifts - showing that you were thinking of your partner by getting them things they will enjoy
3) Acts of Service - doing helpful things, such as assisting with chores
4) Quality Time - giving the other person your undivided attention, talking and listening
5) Physicial Touch - such as holding hands, hugging, kissing, and sexual intercourse